The Highs & Lows of Owning a Volvo C70 Coupé for 8 Years!

As of writing this right now, It has just turned 02:00am on the 1st of March, a couple of energy drinks have been consumed, NF is playing through wireless earphones & there are numerous tabs & programs opened up on my PC. One of these is Google Chrome and the other is the Photo App where an old picture of my C70 is currently greeting me. I should be asleep right about now but there are two reasons why I’m not. The first reason why I’m awake is that I’m looking at car parts I need to buy to get the C70 roadworthy again and the second reason is simply that sleep doesn’t exist.

Add in the fact that I’m looking at old pictures & posts on Facebook that involve the C70, I’ve decided to do a little post about what It’s been like to own my Volvo for what is coming up to 8 years. With that in mind, sit back, get comfy, and learn what It’s like to own such a car for such a long time!

As already mentioned, this article is coming to you guys from the very early hours of the morning & I really should be sleeping but given the circumstances, I’m currently in, I’ve decided to write a little something. I hope the Energy Drinks I’ve had work for long enough so I can jot down a well-rounded and informative piece on the C70 but time will only tell.

For those that are either new or out of the loop, I own a ’00’ MK1 Volvo C70 Coupé that I’ve had since the 6th of March 2015. This C70 in question is my first ever car and whilst that accolade might have died down over the 8 years of ownership, back in 2015 when I was a borderline 18-year-old, that was an extremely big deal for myself, my family, my friends & everyone all round – for better or worse!

Given that I’ve owned the car for coming up to 8 years, I have been very lucky to go through the archives of old posts, pictures & memories that have been collected throughout the years of ownership. These all include numerous jobs I’ve done to the car over the years that will still be ongoing even if the car is currently in an undisclosed storage unit at the time of writing this. The posts & pictures that have gone along with them have especially been something to look back on, both with happiness as well as sadness.

So, what exactly is the story with me and the C70 then? Over ten years ago now, when I was a mere adolescent with no idea of how the world exactly worked, I was a Pupil in high school that had had an interest in cars from a very young age. With this in mind, even though I could barely drive a car on the Playstation or Xbox, I was always on my iPad looking at cars for sale that I could only dream of owning.

As the years went on, the cars I was looking at went from cars I could only dream of owning to left-field choices that could easily be had as a first car. Some of these included an MG ZR 1.4, an ‘R50’ BMW Mini ‘One’, an MK2 Toyota Yaris SR 1.3, an MK1 Ford Focus & even an Alfa Romeo 147. All of these cars would’ve made the perfect first car in all their own different little ways but you might be sitting there wondering and asking yourself “well, what made you overlook all those cars above and go for the C70 instead?!”

I’d always wanted my first car to be left-field and somewhat cool for a young 17-year-old driver and while a lot of the cars mentioned above were affordable, the main issue was the insurance costs. For example, the MG ZR 1.4 mentioned above could easily be bought for £1000 back in 2015 but the insurance was well over double the price of the car and this was a very similar story with the plethora of cars I was looking at. This of course made It extremely frustrating to find something I liked but was also affordable. This is where, weirdly, my parents decided to play an absolute ace which completely flipped everything I knew on Its head.

See, unbeknownst to me, whilst I was looking at first cars and jumping ship to other options every few weeks, my Parents were wanting to get rid of their Honda CR-V MK1 and into a Subaru Legacy Outback or something similar. Unfortunately, we couldn’t afford such a car because they were well outwith our budget but this didn’t stop us from trying. We decided It was better off looking at normal large family estates that were within budget and by doing that, we soon realized that we could easily afford to get into an MK2 Volvo V70 Estate. We’d never been Volvo owners before so as a certain Jeremy Clarkson would say, “How Hard Can It Be?!”

To cut a long story short, my parents bought a 2001 Volvo S80 MK1 2.4 ‘S’ that I really fell in love with since I first clapped eyes on it, and upon spending a weekend traveling down to the outskirts of London to pick It up, I knew that I had to at least look at a Volvo for myself once we got home. Upon coming home, I started looking at some for sale but didn’t quite find something that I was interested in until I found a C70 Coupé that was very similar to mine. After doing some research on them, I knew I had to have one straight away. Cut to 8 months later on the 6th of March 2015, I became the proud owner of my very own C70!

So what’s It been like to own then?! Well, in all honesty, It has definitely had Its ups & downs. It’s no lie that throughout the years, the car has been more of a mechanical project than a car I can actually go out & drive but even with that, I still wouldn’t part with It. Yes, It can be a pain when something breaks, especially when It’s in a place where the part can’t easily be reached but isn’t that the whole point of owning a Project Car?!

Looking back at all the jobs I’ve done to It, all the posts I’ve put up about it, and all the endless pictures I’ve taken of It over the 8 years of ownership, you’d be easily mistaken for thinking that owning It has been an absolute breeze but in all honesty, It has been far from easy trying to keep it going. there have been endless scraped knuckles, numerous swear words muttered & numerous parts broken & subsequently replaced.

So what exactly do we have here then?! Well, ‘ProjectC70′ as she is known as, is a ’00’ Model year C70 Coupé, fitted to it is the smallest engine available for the C70, a 2.0T 5-cylinder unit (B5204T4) which is DOHC, 20v, Turbocharged and is made solely of Aluminium Alloy which makes It very strong yet quite light. The MK1 C70 in general was co-developed by Volvo & Tom Walkinshaw Racing or ‘TWR’ for short and sat on the ‘P80’ platform, the same platform as the Volvo 850 T5, T5-R and then later the 850R. The design was penned by none-other than Ian Callum under Peter Horbury’s supervision. C70’s production ran from ’96 all the way through to ’05 and was available either in Coupé or Convertible body styles. Three gearboxes were available with the C70 throughout Its life, these included two Aisin Automatic Gearboxes, an AW50-42LE 4-speed in the earlier cars and an AW55-50SN 5-speed in the later cars. There was only one Manual Gearbox option available and that was known as the ‘M56’. This was Volvo’s own Gearbox and was a 5-Speed affair that had also seen the light of day in the likes of the 850, the S70, the V70 MK1, the V70 XC & even in early models of the S60 & MK2 V70 that came out after the turn of the millennium. My C70 has the ‘M56’ Gearbox attached to it and it just adds to the whole driving experience, the gearbox truly matches the engine it’s bolted to and that really does make the 8 years of ups & downs worth it. Due to its age & the platform it sits upon, it’s also a lot more mechanical than some people might think.

Because of this, the little C70 is so easy to work on and is built so well that when something does break or needs replacing, you just fix the issue and need not worry about it again. Also because It’s one of the last cars where an owner can actually work on It themselves with simple hand tools, this means It can easily be fixed without plugging It in every time a warning light comes on or subsequently, needing to use really expensive, specialist tools. There’s something that’s just so satisfying about putting earphones in, music blaring, with tools in hand going to work on your own car and fixing Its little foibles!

In fact, that is probably the main reason why It’s still here under my ownership. The C70 has been such a joy to work on & fix as well as own that trying to find anything else to replace It with has had Its challenges. To some people, It may only be a 22-year-old car that doesn’t have a lot of value in It but to me, It’s become part of the family and has loads more sentimental value than actual monetary value. In fact, if someone was to come up to me and say that they’d give me the money to buy my dream car in my dream spec – an Aston Martin DB9, but that’d mean that I’d have to sell the C70, I’d keep the C70 hands down & no amounts of money will ever change my mind!

The C70 has always been there whilst I’ve dealt with my own personal issues over these last 8 years too, some of those include health issues, family issues, and, more recently, death, and even through all that It’s still there to help me through it. Some people use stress balls to take their minds off of certain things but I use the car.

Through the 8 years of ownership, It can be difficult to pick out a crowning moment that has stood the testament of time so It comes as no surprise that I’m having to rack my brain for a memory that sums the whole ownership up but if I was to pick a memory that made me feel really good, It’d be when I got it featured in a ‘Modern Classics’ Magazine a couple of years ago & wound up getting ‘Star Letter’. It’s moments like those that can really make ownership of a project car that little bit more enjoyable.

What I will say though is that over the 8 years of ownership, I still have the same amount of love for It that I did all those years ago when I first clocked eyes on It. Owning It for all these years has certainly been a challenge but I’d never change It for the world. To some people, cars just get you from A to B with no real reason or questions asked but to us petrolheads, the car is the whole reason!

Hope You Enjoy!

By Alex Jebson

What are my car-related plans going into 2023?!!!

So with 2022 coming to an end at the time of writing this blog, I thought I’d share my car-related plans with everyone in 2023. This year has been an absolute rollercoaster in terms of personal issues so as you can imagine, there haven’t been a lot of car-related shenanigans happening this year. Whilst I did get to see the absolutely incredible Aston Martin LM4 a couple of months ago, that was more due to luck than a planned event. With that in mind, here is what I hope will be happening in 2023 and if everything goes to plan, an old friend of the blogs might be making a return!

I understand that the blogs haven’t been happening this year due to a few things. firstly, I had to move from the Angus area of Scotland back down to the Ayrshire region of Scotland back in February which obviously took a lot of time, money & effort to do. Since moving back down this way, I’ve had to go job searching again which is never easy or quick. With everything happening, certain things haven’t quite yet come back home. I do plan on writing more come the new year and whilst I am indeed a car guy throughout, these last few years, I have found myself getting more and more into HGV’s/Semi Trucks so there could be a few trucks-related articles coming to the Blogs as a way to break up the usual posts I currently do.

People that follow my blogs and my socials may remember me posting about a ‘W140′ S500 Project that I’d acquired as both a 2nd car and an attainable dream car of mine. well, unfortunately, that deal fell through quite significantly and there was nothing I could do about it to keep the car. Add in the UK’s current economic situation and whilst it isn’t amazing, I couldn’t run a big old V8 in this current climate so that is no longer with me. Those that have been here since the very beginning will know that I also own a ’00’ Volvo C70 Coupė that has been said to be a keeper and that is still the case. Whilst on the subject of the Volvo, for those that are here for the C70-related content, I have some information!

To those that don’t know, the C70 is currently still in storage safe & sound up where I used to live & whilst that isn’t exactly what I’d like, be assured I haven’t abandoned it. I do have a plan regarding what will be happening with the C70 and believe me, it won’t be easy and it’ll be tough both mentally & physically but I am determined to get it running for an extremely personal reason that I will reveal in a further article. For the time being, what I will say is that I plan on making a list of the parts it needs and eventually buying & eventually fitting all the parts on said list. I can’t promise that it’ll be 100% completed by the end of next year but I hope to be pretty damned close.

Once the C70 is finished, I do plan on taking it to shows like the ‘Practical Classics Classic Car & Restoration Show’ that happens every October/November of the year. I would also like to take it on some road trips and these comprise of driving down to the village of Goathland down in Yorkshire to hang around with a good friend of mine as well as enjoy the roads that Yorkshire has to offer. I would also love to take it on a trip around the NC500 up in the Highlands of Scotland. I would like to take the C70 on other major road trips but they can wait for now. In the meantime, I’d take it to local meets and shows just like I used to do a good few years ago.

To make sure the C70 has the best fighting chance at being resurrected, I will only be getting the best Volvo Genuine Parts for it both from Volvo themselves as well as numerous different Volvo-related parts websites that are out there on the Interwebs. To make sure this is possible, I have started to save up some money so I can buy all the parts that I need to get her running again. The only downside in all of this really is the weather and time restraints due to not having a garage or carport down this way like I did up in Angus.

Even though not having a garage or a carport is a bit of a downside of living here, and even though I have the weather and time against me as well, I’m 100% in wanting to make this work. Now I know that fixing the C70’s issues won’t happen overnight and it will take a lot of dedication to make it come together but as of right now, I have started to make some effort by ordering tools & equipment together so that when the project does resume, we’ll be able to go guns blazing on the project which will mean more updates on the progress both quicker & a lot more often.

As mentioned earlier, I do plan on writing more articles over the year as I have been severely lacking in that area. I also need to be quite a bit more active on social media as well as I’m lacking there too, but I do hope that with progress on the car comes more opportunities to post and write in both areas. This might mean a few upgrades to my PC just so it can cope but with the right tools and know-how, I can’t see the PC impeding things.

I also want to support small, family-run businesses when I eventually get the C70 back home and start the work. Apart from getting a good amount of parts from the likes of Volvo and well-known Volvo parts suppliers, I really want to get a lot of the things that need to be done to that car by smaller, lesser-known companies. Not just because it’s the right thing to do but because for a majority of the time, they do a better job than the favoured & wider-known companies that the UK car community has to offer.

This does mean that I’ll need to travel to the region of Glasgow to get a good amount of the stuff done but I do feel like that’s a small fee to pay for the quality of the work. For the stuff that can’t be done around here, they will be getting sent away to England or elsewhere in the UK to get fixed. Even though I’d prefer to be face to face with a representative of a particular company that’s ultimately working on the car (so I know what’s actually going into it), sometimes things are out of people’s control and I know that’ll be the case when it comes to certain stuff that needs to be fixed on the car.

Now it has been known that over these last few years, I’ve not actually gone to town on the car as I used to do at the start of my ownership and that is, unfortunately, accurate but I really want to put all my effort into it come the new year because, for a start, I want to get back to appreciating it again and secondly, with prices of these cars going up and numbers of these cars going down, if I don’t save it, the MK1 C70 Coupė will slowly but surely start to dwindle away to nothingness and I really don’t want that happening.

That’s enough about the C70 though, next year I want to do a lot more things than just wrench and swear over the Volvo’s progress. I would like to get back to more events and such because I really enjoy going to them as well as taking pictures with my DSLR camera. I’d also love to get back to some car meets as well, especially Tartan Tarmac meets because they’re always run incredibly well by a great bunch of guys, plus, It’s been a long time since I’ve been to a meet hosted by them.

Primarily though, I want to get back to driving again. Whilst I have been driving since I was 18, I haven’t been able to drive properly for the last few years due to ill health & other personal issues. I’m hoping that can change within the new year because if there’s one thing I love doing and that is driving. Thankfully, we do have a plan in place so that I can get back to driving again which should be good. Getting back into the driver’s seat again will also come in handy when it comes to getting parts of the C70 fixed up.

The car I’ll be using for this is truthfully something a little bit different than I’m used to and dare I say something I’m intrigued about trying out. Since I was last down here back in 2020, the new family hack has been changed from a 2007 Seat Altea XL MPV thing to a 2008 Toyota RAV-4 MK3 High-Mileage-Hero. Now that change might not sound all that exciting to a lot of people reading this and normally I’d agree but the RAV-4 I’ll be sampling isn’t just a run-of-the-mill variant that’s nothing to shout about. I understand this doesn’t come up in conversation a lot but whenever the mention of an MK3 Toyota RAV-4 is mentioned, a majority of people run for the hills and rightly so but those who decide to stick around will ultimately find out that throughout its life, it had a plethora of powertrains available dependant on which market you were in.

For example, in the USA you could option the RAV-4 MK3 ‘XA30’ as it was known with, the then-current 3.5 litre V6 that was primarily found in the Camry of the same time. Over here in the Uk though, we got a 2.0 petrol 4-cylinder lump that put out about 130bhp, and 2 types of diesel engines available. These both came in 2.2 flavours or ‘Guise’ if you will. Normally, the 2.2 ‘D-4D’ unit put out 150bhp in standard guise but if you paid out a bit extra money you could get a trim level called the ‘T180’, as the name suggests, this variant had a 180bhp variant of the same 2.2 diesel found in the standard car. Attached to that was a 6-speed gearbox and AWD which made it surprisingly spritely compared to the 150bhp model and its competition at the time. Add in Toyota’s reliability, its rarity and the fact that it was the top-spec model of the ‘XA30’ here in the UK, and this meant that it had literally everything thrown at it from Toyota back when it was new.

Our ‘XA30’ ‘T180’ has around about 160k miles under its belt which is doing well for a 14-year-old car that has stayed in Scotland all of its life. In saying that though, compared to other cars we’ve had with similar mileage, the Toyota seems to be holding up a lot better. The plan with that car is to keep it going for the time being and slowly but surely get it to pass the 200k mile mark. I can’t see it being an issue personally because the way it drives at the moment would suggest it’s only on 60k instead of 160k but here we are. To be able to put miles onto it so it can reach the 200k milestone is something I’m looking forward to doing I can’t lie.

Generally speaking though, apart from sorting things out with the Volvo, getting behind the wheel of the RAV-4 and driving again as well as writing a lot more articles and keeping up with social media a bit better than I currently am, I don’t ever intend on changing too much. I’ll still be the same idiot breaking stuff and generally having a laugh whilst trying to work out and understand this wonderful thing called life and that’s all I could ever ask for or do.

So with all that being said, and with 2022 coming to an end, I hope everyone here has an incredible Christmas & New Year Celebration and goes into 2023 with their head held high. Even if 2022 hasn’t been your year, just remember that you’ve fought this far and you’ve gotten through it and better things are coming. Every day is a new day and regardless of how things have gone this year, there’s always a new year to look forward to. So from myself and my family to you and yours, I hope you’ve had a great Christmas and I hope you have an even better year!

Hope You Enjoy!

Alex Jebson

Here’s Why You Need To Follow Driven Escape!!

With it being Mental Health Awareness Week this week, it can be very easy for us fellow petrol-heads and car people to feel lost in this world. With a lot of us distancing ourselves from the outside world due to being fixated on these inanimate objects, it can be very easy for us to feel down from time to time. For a lot of us, our cars are pretty much one of our only things in life that we have left as sad as it sounds. This is where Driven Escape comes in.

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As a fellow petrolhead with Epilepsy as well as mental health problems due to my illness, on a lot of occasions, my C70 project car is pretty much my only saving grace.  I use my C70 to fight my epilepsy and while a majority of the time it’s not an issue, on some occasions it can be a pain in the backside. While that may be typical project car ownership issues, when mental health is involved and you’re only way of fighting it is in a right state it can certainly get to you. Driven Escape helps out with this in a truly wonderful way.

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Driven Escape is a fairly small but brilliant Non-Profit Mental Awareness social media platform that helps out with mental health in the car community. Ran by a lad called Connor, he decided to set it up after going through quite a bad patch of issues himself, and just like a lot of us, he always had his cars to lift him up and help him fight it more than most people actually realised. Spurred on by this, he decided to create Driven Escape to give fellow car people going through similar issues a place to come together as a community to help people get through whatever issues they may be facing.

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Even though the community and following are fairly small compared to other groups out there, Driven Escape combats this by being a very close-knit community that looks after one another. Unlike other groups that are just for classics only or just modified cars, Driven Escape has a large array of vehicles in the group ranging from MGB GT’s to Austin Metros even up to a very rare but equally lovely Isuzu Piazza. Regardless of what car you own, you’re welcomed in with welcome arms.

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Alongside the social media platforms over on Facebook & Instagram, there is also a website that deals with merchandise like stickers and clothing items. Unlike other places that deal with merchandise to branch out their business, Driven Escape does something a little bit special. All the money spent that goes towards the clothing items and stickers goes to various mental health charities in the UK, a simply incredible gesture to do for the numerous amounts of people going through a bad time with mental health issues.

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I’ve been lucky to speak to Connor himself and he is so welcoming to people regardless if they’re new to Driven Escape or not. Even during this pandemic that we are currently facing, Connor has been acting on it by holding live check-ins and virtual car meets over on Instagram so he can both meet new faces as well as regular faces as well as get to know the cars and any updates made to them.

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Everyone who currently follows and has joined the Driven Escape Community Zone Facebook group are also brilliant people who help out regardless of what is wrong with either the car or the person behind the wheel and it really is a lovely thing to see, especially in circumstances like we have in this day and age.

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The best bit about Driven Escape though is the people who follow it. In a day and age where mental health is ignored in our society simply because it isn’t entirely apparent, to see a group in the car community come together and help out fellow petrolheads is something to admire.

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With the car community and the people in it being quite a bittersweet place to be in this society, it can be very easy for people to show hate for no valuable reason other than either jealousy or their own hidden issues. With Driven Escape and everything that they do, it brings back the car community and spirit of old where regardless of what you own or what stuff you do to said cars, people give respect regardless. Even if it isn’t something you’re into, respect is always given.

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With a vast array of owners and cars who are part of the Driven Escape family, there’s bound to be people, cars, or even styles out there that you can get involved with. Whether it be American muscle cars or small French hot-hatches, there’s a community within a community to get involved with, add in the respect you get, and the lack of hassle you get what isn’t there to love?

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Connor has really done an amazing job by creating Driven Escape and building it into what it is today. It’s not every day that you get someone from the car community going out of their way to create such a hub for fellow car people. Add the generous amounts of money given to mental health charities with the sale of both stickers and clothing items, Driven Escape really is in an element of its own. Just remember, It’s Okay Not to Be Okay.

 

Hope You Enjoy!

By Alex Jebson.

We Need To Start Helping Fellow Petrolheads Combat Mental Health Issues!

As any petrolhead knows, the car community is absolutely huge. Look anywhere on social media or online on the likes of Youtube and you’ll get an idea of how large the community actually is. For me, I’m in many groups on social media and I’m friends with many different wonderful people in countries thousands of miles away who all share the same passion; cars! So why is it a surprise then when I say that nearly every single day, yet another fellow car guy suffers from some form of mental health issue?

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It’s no surprise really when you understand that the once-great community we surround ourselves in has now turned into what seems to be a massive row and argument over who has the best or cleanest or even the most expensive car at the likes of meets or even groups. When you have people behaving like that, it is no wonder that one by one people start to leave the once brilliant community behind. Now even I admit that there is more to it than just meets, even if you are like me and you fix never-ending project cars if you don’t get no help even when literally shouting from the rooftops then that can very easily turn you off fixing the car in question and can really affect your head even if you feel fine otherwise. I know this situation all too well as it has happened to me before on numerous occasions and let me tell you, it is not a nice feeling to be in a situation like that at all. It turns out that I’m not the only one who’s been like this at one point in their lives neither.

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In some cases, someone could already be feeling down through other things and all the hate and lack of support you can possibly get in the current car scene pretty much tips them over the edge. With mental health issues being so broad and being very well hidden (especially those who are men), It’s very easy to judge and come out with stuff without realizing what’s actually going on inside someone’s head. I’ve been unfortunate enough to see this enough in a good few mates I’ve made through the car scene and it isn’t easy to watch whatsoever, especially when you consider them to be good mates of yours.

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All is not lost however, all the stuff I mentioned above is easily reversible, in fact, it’s one of the easiest things to fix. First of all, and I know this sounds daft but if someone you know needs some help and they live close by then simply suggest and ask if you can give them a hand, not just will this get you busy but it’ll also help out the people involved.

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Don’t ever put anyone’s car down, whether that be to someone’s face or even behind their backs. The main issue with the car community is everyone’s opinions bouncing off each other and once they become conflicted causing an argument that’s when things get bad and it’s simply not needed. Regardless of if it’s to your taste or not, its not a nice feeling for someone to put hours and hours of blood, sweat & tears into building their dream build just for it to be shot down in flames because one person doesn’t like a certain part or a certain way someone has fixed or modified something.

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If someone you know is feeling down and needs taking out of their slumber they’re in, there is a lot of things you can do that can & will instantly boost said person(s) mood pretty much tenfold. Whether their car is on the road or not, one of those activities you can do is take the person to a well-known petrol-heads place of interest, whether it’s ‘Caffeine & Machine’ in the UK or even to a ‘Cars & Coffee’ event, these types of places are brilliant for talking to people and sharing the love of cars.

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Even a simple convoy with a few like-minded mates to a well-known tourist attraction has been known to boost people’s moods pretty much straight away. Nothing makes a car person feel better than going out on drives with good mates on good roads, the memories stick with everyone involved for years on end as well which is a pretty good feeling as well.

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If like me you are involved in a lot of amazing car groups, get to speak to some reoccurring members of the groups to find out where there might be some events you could both could go to, regardless of size it gets a gaggle of people out from the current situations they might be in and for a day or so, they forget about everything that is currently wrong and embrace themselves in the moment and for that, they’d forever be thankful. Groups I would personally recommend are both ‘Motorheads International’ or ‘RPM365’ due to their wonderful helping, caring members creating an equally amazing atmosphere. There’s hardly any hate in any of these groups and the admins are always on top of things if things start to get iffy, these two groups alone feel like a massive family instead of a typical car group.

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The last point I’ll make is a simple one but yet so poignant. If you really want to help anyone who is having mental health issues regardless of what it is, simply sit down and listen to the person affected and support them the best you can. whether it’s by joining them in a game on a games console or even being around them in other ways, listening and support go a long way to help someone fight their insecurities and current issues. It’s very easy to try and make out that it’s nothing important and that it’s just a phase but for a lot of people, it is a whole lot more serious than just that so instead of trying to be the big man by ignoring desperate pleas for help, simply listen to them and support them the best way you can.

 

Hope You Enjoy!

By Alex Jebson